Temilolu Okeowo
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Dear Mummy,
I just read your Saturday PUNCH column. May God bless you indeed for your work! I have a lot of young baby mamas around me, walking about aimlessly with no hope for the future. I pray that God will continue to bless you with more wisdom and energy to advise us girls. I also hope to be like you some day. You are my role model ma!
With love,
Chisom Vincent
Dear Temilolu,
I am a 50-year-old man with good looks and a seductive character and tongue. These attributes could have been positively employed to impact lives; however, as soon as I left secondary school, Satan got hold of me and effectively used me to seduce and deceive girls and women into fornication and adultery and once they got pregnant, I callously abandoned them. Today, I have nothing less than a dozen children I wickedly abandoned across six states in Nigeria. I have since repented and turned away from sin and God, merciful and compassionate beyond imagination, is turning my life round for the better. I have been reading your column religiously for months and I give glory to God for the great vision He gave you for young people. Looking back, I realise that I didn’t understand the implications of what I was doing, sowing my wild oats, breaking hearts and bringing children into the world with no love or responsibility towards them. How would I have known when I was a pretending Christian with no conscience, when even my biological father was sleeping with almost all the women he employed in his capacity as personnel director in the company where he worked? I must say that God is indeed just and faithful and the wicked will never go unpunished! I had a terrible accident in which I lost my left eye and I also had so many scars that permanently defaced me. I’ve also been dealing with high blood pressure! It’s certainly a reward for my wickedness because some of those women became worthless to date! I advise the youth to be careful and prayerful. I salute you for your wonderful and highly necessary ministry! To the men with insatiable desire for sexual sin, payback time is coming!
Bayo
Dear Mummy Temilolu,
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for the past five years and he promised to marry me. I believe it can happen but people sometimes discourage me. However, I love him and he loves me too. His parents and sisters know me and they all love me. But I’m scared ma; do you think he can marry me?
T.17
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Hmm…girls…girls…girls, now I see why a lot of women are completely knocked down by life when they are visited with life’s vicissitudes and can’t brace themselves to face the battle and use it as a catapult to get to the top! A lot of them spend the time they should be expending on developing their life skills and studying on meaningless things, wasting precious time with boys/romance in their teens. My young lady is just 17 years old and she’s bold enough to tell me she’s been dating a guy since she was 12 and she states it as though it’s normal and perfectly okay and already thinking about their future together! What does she know about life? What experience has she gathered that makes her think he should be part of her future? What does she have spiritually, materially, psychologically, emotionally, and so on, to coast through life? Sigh…Jesus is Lord! I bet 85 per cent of her body, soul and spirit have been invested in this guy! I bet she’d rather spend time with him than spend extra time on her studies. How then can she acquire fantastic grades that would ensure she gets an admission to study a choice course? If she uses all her energy and drive in a relationship, how can she develop necessary life skills such as decision-making, problem-solving, critical thinking, self-awareness, assertiveness (especially when a boy continuously messes around with her emotions), resilience, coping with emotions and coping with stress?
My darling T,
According to street parlance- why are you “doing” yourself, dancing to the drumbeats of the devil and playing with fire? If you begin to think of marriage now when I doubt you’ve even got an admission into the university, how would you make anything solid out of your life? You’re still a baby and unfortunately, you lack good guidance! Why are you so much in a hurry? There’s so much in you to develop before you get committed to anyone in marriage! Please forget this boy for now, concentrate on your studies, develop and discover yourself! May your emotions not become your greatest undoing in Jesus’ mighty name!
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