Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I am a student of the University of Lagos and currently studying Accounting. I have been looking for someone to confide in but couldn’t trust anyone around for fear of criticisms. I never read newspapers but my father reads them a lot! One morning after doing my chores, I took Saturday PUNCH and flipped through it just to occupy myself and I saw your article. I read it. Although I am a guy, your message touched the core of my soul and I felt the urge to reach out to you believing you would have a solution to my problems. I am sorry for this story I’m telling but I need help! I have been having difficulty in almost every aspect of my life. I need your help ma. Please attend to my case.
J.
Dear Ma,
Thanks for your constant prayers and advice on your timeline. May God bless you richly in Jesus name!
Please ma, why do men think every lady can be asked for sex or that every lady wants sex? Why can’t most men help without asking for something in return?
Why are most men so wicked? At the moment I can’t even vouch for any man, because many that I respect so much have failed me. I will be 30 years old in five months and I’m still a virgin. But ma, I’ve only met one decent guy all this while. Does it mean ladies are no longer safe around men?
Recently I needed the help of a reputable man, but what he said shocked me. He actually wants me to sleep with him. This is a man who’s like a father-figure!
Mummy, I’m not happy at the moment. I’ve not been able to sleep in the last two days now due to my recent experience with men.
I can’t wait to be found by my own bone and flesh. I’ve been through a lot but I’m determined to keep myself and to honour God with His help. Please ma’am, I need some words of encouragement from you. I’ve been crying. I’m not just happy at the moment.
Iyanuoluwa
Dear J.,
I empathise with you on whatever you may be dealing with at the moment. As you know I write about chastity, its importance and gains. If you ask me from this angle, I can only tell you to stay focused on your self-development and ensure you avoid romantic relationships which could distract you and compound your challenges! You will do yourself a world of good by getting the fire of God to well up in you and right all the wrongs and you will be pleasantly amazed at how everything that has been difficult could suddenly become easy! A chaste life is usually illuminated by God and separated from every form of evil and if you can establish a solid relationship with God, all will certainly be well with you! If there’s anything deeper bothering you, you may please send another message. God bless you!
My darling Iyanuoluwa,
In fact, you are wonderful and can’t imagine what God has in store for you. We are in a highly-depraved world where an average lady uses her body to get whatever she wants so many men think almost any lady is available? Now, can you imagine how God feels about you? Do you think God is not recording all the advances you’re rebuffing and all you’re being denied because you want to please Him? I plead with you to be patient. Be patient, patient please and endure! I am writing from experience- by the time God decides He’s ready to turn things around, not only would He glorify you spiritually, materially and physically in diverse ways, He will bombard you with more than enough of everything you want! What more? Some of world’s most honourable men are coming to look for you soon too.
All I need from you right now is to do things that will make God even happier with you. You are ripe- in fact more than ripe for marriage but please can you stop worrying about that for now and ask God to build you up in other aspects of your life? At over 30 and with all you carry as a result of your chaste life, it would be strange and embarrassing for you to be a liability to any man coming your way! Most men want assets! Between now and the rest of this year, please work on your self-development, do all you can to be financially stable even if you can’t get a job! Believe me, you are so blessed that anything you lay your hands on right now would turn to gold! Make the most of your singlehood now! While busy with that, a very special man God has specifically-configured for your obedience will CERTAINLY find you! You should be so happy not crying!
I’m so proud of you and giving you a hug right now! Congratulations my love!!!
I invite you to follow me on Facebook –TEMILOLU OKEOWO Instagram @ Okeowo Temilolu.
Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and state of domicile to 07086620576.
FINAL WORD
Chastity does not belong to the past. It saves you a lot of trouble, preserves your beautiful destiny and stands you out from the crowd. You are better off not engaging in pre-marital and extra-marital sex. Stay chaste!
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