Dear Aunty Temilolu,
Many thanks for all the mind-blowing messages you always post on Facebook. They build, encourage and make us stand tall to see farther. I wish to see you someday so I can give you the big hug I have been keeping for you! Your messages make me leave the past behind and press towards a glorious future. They make me stand firmly on moral grounds and appreciate the value of the innate gifts I possess as a young lady. May God bless you beyond measure. I love you ma!
Adeola Adetomiwa, 19
Dear Mummy Temilolu,
I just want to thank you for loving me like you love every girl-child! My history will always reflect your name. It was so nice to hear you laugh like a girl over the phone! You’re always so serious in your writings and some of your pictures! More of that in Jesus name. Please don’t scold me. I just spoke my mind. However, I wish you had more time to listen so I could tell you anything and everything. I pray you have more time. I love you mummy!
Marvelous Oluwayemi, 20
Dear Madam,
I am a teens’ teacher in my local church. I read your write-up for the first time today in Saturday Punch. I was enlightened! I plan to share it with female teenagers and I’m sure they will learn a lot from it. I hope to be in a forum where you will be teaching in the nearest future. Thanks and God bless you ma.
Mr. Olafimihan Gbeleyi
Parents of my darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Last Saturday, I began discussing what has become a menace in the lives of girls and what kills so many dreams daily; derailing and diverting the destiny of many glorious teenagers- BOYFRIENDS! So many girls in their early teens practically abandon their lives, academic pursuits and self-development getting submerged in dangerous love affairs! I once counselled a 14-year-old whose parents just took for an abortion and there she was after the sordid affair, falling in love with another boy! I’ve counselled girls whose grades fell badly and couldn’t pursue their childhood dream career which was probably designed by God to make them known all over the world. Almost on a daily basis, I hear from girls, who can’t construct a simple sentence in English correctly yet moan and groan about boyfriends like it’s the oxygen they need to breathe! I know young ladies and women whose lives were completely knocked out because of one love affair that could have been avoided in their teens! I know a beautiful lady with a very bright future who ended up in the psychiatric hospital because of a run-away boyfriend! I could go on and on!
We all know falling in love is beautiful and at the delicate early teen age, it appears like paradise because these girls are just discovering themselves and the world around them! Mind you, it is absolutely normal for even pre-teens to fall in love because girls as well as the female folk in general are romantic by nature. Besides, as children of God, we are wired to love! However, with the satanic grip on the world and a huge lack of God-consciousness or do I just say a lack of the indwelling of God, carnal love is quick to develop in the hearts of today’s children. Sadly, they don’t know what they are doing! They are virtually raped of their innocence before they are 10. They are bombarded by all sorts by the TV, social media on smartphones, school mates, domestic staff and older family members while their parents are too busy to get into their heads in good time and drive God into their souls on time! As a teen, I crushed on a guy, fell in love as well, however, my late dad was everywhere in my head and all over me because of his boundless love and strictness and he ensured 90 per cent of my past time was spent with God; so there was no way any other human being could get the better part of me!
Believe me; most parents of today’s generation of girls don’t know what their girls are up to and what they are capable of! These girls aren’t having a good time either, they fall flat and crash into smithereens then continue again, dabbling in sex, accepting rut from different lives into theirs, laying a bad foundation for their future and that of their unborn children! Yet, they are entitled to a most beautiful time on earth! How sad! May God see our girls through!
To be continued.
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