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Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I bless the day I discovered you! May God bless your entire existence on earth. You’re a great woman and blessing to every female child. I love you ma! You’re my role model.
Dolapo Ewe
Dear Mummy Temilolu,
I’m just 16 years old but I have this challenge of boys claiming to love me and that they will do anything for me but I refuse to date them. However, they still insist and there are about four of them mounting pressure on me now! I have been dating one of them in the last one year but early this year, I told him I was no longer interested because my mum told me if I date a boy at my age, I’d get pregnant and the boy will abandon me. I don’t want to get pregnant at my age. However, he doesn’t want to let go of me. He keeps telling me he loves me and he knows I’m still a virgin and I wish to remain so till my wedding night. Please advise me ma. I’m confused!
Anonymous
My darling anonymous,
There’s nothing unusual about your experience with guys at your age. Your mother has told you nothing but the truth. At 16, every girl is at the peak of puberty and discovering herself. Just like male teenagers, she has the tendency to be deluded about a lot of things and sets her mind on whatever catches her fancy with a passion and so much gusto! A lot of girls who got pregnant at 16 never planned it! They got carried away with dangerous love poems and suffocating attention from their boyfriends. Now that you’re on holidays, I’d like you to Google my articles on ‘The distraction called boyfriend’ and many more of my weekly write-ups. Your soul will become so illuminated with the spirit of God and you won’t spare that guy a thought thereafter! By the way, many guys that age chasing 15, 16-year-old girls are predators- I won’t call them paedophiles yet! Most times, these guys can’t get girls above 19 to swoon with love as they wish so they go for younger girls like you who more often than not have not ‘opened eye’ according to street parlance. I encourage you to read those articles and you’ll be more empowered and determined on your resolution as you would realise you don’t need a boyfriend in your teens.
Girls…girls…girls, under 20, NO GUY DESERVES YOUR ATTENTION more keenly than the HOLY SPIRIT AND YOUR STUDIES! These two will go a long way in determining the QUALITY and ALTITUDE of your life!
Dear Parents of my darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
In the last few weeks I’ve been writing on reasons your girls are obsessed with boyfriends. These include inadequate love and attention, social media/peer pressure, financial incapacity and the last which I’ll discuss today is Satanic Manipulation.
Any right thinking person should know by now that our entire existence is based on the supernatural. We are moved and act according to what lives inside us/spiritual influences. The world is ruled by good and evil. I tell you, when an average teenager misbehaves, I pity him/her because more often than not, they don’t know what they are doing! They’re only acting out the spirit that’s controlling them! And I tell you the devil likes to torment girls of these ages the most because it knows once it can derail and divert their attention from the path that shines with light to darkness, it has won the battle over their lives! Anyone who mocks you for trying to spiritualise your children or tease you about their getting involved in church activities always is a devil you need to run from. There’s too much pressure on these children and you can’t be with them all the time. However, the spirit of God you build in them over time is what will save them from peril and what’s more, they turn out to be stars with excellent grades! Don’t forget there are evil wise men around you who know the type of stars your children carry; who have in fact seen the magnitude of their greatness! Please, spend time with them during these long holidays. Ensure they rub minds with God daily, fire them up by making them memorise two scriptures daily until their souls begin to resonate with those verses! Even you will be perplexed at what will become of them before they resume school. Then wait for the next term’s result! You would wish you had been putting them through such an exercise! Your children’s enemy (the devil) shall know the bitter shame of defeat over their lives and its everlasting shame will know no end! May the power of God surround them like a shield and may God bless them and make them very great in Jesus mighty name! Happy Holidays!
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Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a Secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and State of domicile to 07086620576.
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