God will surely reward your labour of love for the girls you are mentoring! He will grant, give and grace you with spiritual, physical and mental strength daily for the next phase of this call, commission and command. He will keep you and you shall remain a model to be followed not a mistake to be avoided in Jesus mighty name!
Mr. Paul Ozieh
Dear Mr. Paul Ozieh,
I say a big Amen to your prayers. God bless you sir!
Dear Mummy Temilolu,
I’m suffering from heartbreak and I need your advice. I have a boyfriend and we have gone very far in the relationship although he’s a year my junior. I’m in S.S.3 while he’s in S.S.2. I love him so much and I’m so addicted to him because of the romance and kisses he’s been giving me! Right from when I was in S.S.2, I have been visiting him to have fun. However, it’s been a secret relationship because I didn’t want anyone to know about it- not even one of my friends. I trusted him with all my life, I loved him like there’s no tomorrow. He told me a lot of crap like he’d be the one to deflower me because he loves me so much yet he has a side chic after seeing my nakedness and playing with it. I never stopped loving him and would apologise to him even when he’s wrong! When I got to S.S.3, he suddenly announced to me four months to my final exams that he’s no longer interested in me. My greatest challenge is we attend the same school so I can’t stop seeing him neither can I stop thinking about him. I’m so heart-broken; I can’t concentrate on my studies. I’ve been crying every day since he sent me the message. What can I do that will make me forget him? Life has become so terrible for me. Please advise me ma!
Anonymous, 15
Dear parents of my darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Hmm…hmm…hmm…(shaking my head). The other day, I was invited to speak at a summit for girls in Lagos and a nine-year-old came out and asked what to do if a boy-her classmate wouldn’t stop making romantic advances towards her incessantly pressuring her to visit him at home! I was aghast to say the least! Any wonder most of these children have lost focus and are still not sure which course to study in the university by the time they’re done with secondary school! I’ve often said if parents fail to get into their children’s heads and drive God into their souls in their impressionable years, the society and stupid, bad devil will take over and manipulate them at will. That’s exactly what’s happening to the average child in today’s society!
How can a 15-year-old suddenly find life terrible because of a boy and an unproductive but most fatal love affair? This is someone who hasn’t even discovered life or her very self, someone who should be enjoying life, having all the fun and laughter and making good use of her vivid imagination, passion and gusto to pursue life vigorously and have it surrender her dreams no matter her circumstance! This is very tragic! How can a baby be badly crushed by a love affair at a tender age? This girl is exerting her energy on what would ensure she’s not emotionally balanced to deal with challenges that are bound to come her way as she coasts through life! She’s spending precious time on a useless love affair when she should be developing life skills to survive an evil world and a life that’s full of uncertainty! No wonder so many promising girls end up not reaching their dreams because they never developed what should strengthen and make them soar! If you ask me, I feel this is very unfair and this girl’s clearly not herself! I doubt she has a good relationship with her parents! Funnily enough, she told me they never had sex when I asked her if he deflowered her! Can you imagine what would have happened if she got pregnant! The boy would have denied her outright!
The truth be told, a lot of parents don’t know what their children are up to- both boys and girls! And these children are lost with no one to assist them in a depraved world as this! They are constantly bombarded with lewd lyrics where girls are displayed as sex objects, display of all forms of vices and immorality on the social media etc. and to worsen matters, 85 per cent of them have a passion for the wrong role models! I usually wonder the type of children they would bring into the world! May you have peace in your old age! The ball is really in your court!
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