Elizabeth Badejo
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07088694961
Celebrate your strengths
They say that tough times never last but tough people do. The challenge that comes with a marriage differs from one couple to another and each individual’s strength shows in how well they are able to manage their challenges. Identifying your spouse’s strengths and capabilities will help your marriage cultivate the seeds needed to grow a healthy and strong marital union.
Start celebrating your strengths in 2019 and how far you have both made it, irrespective of the number of years you have been married. Always celebrate yourselves and each other as you continue to weather the storms of life together.
Invest in good values
A happy marriage can only be achieved through the joint efforts of two people who share similar visions and values, which make the difference in their marriage. Build a sense of connection together that focuses on all the things that make life meaningful to you and plan your values around them. Values are the principles that guide a good marriage; a marriage without values is an empty marriage with no structures to stand on to make it purpose-filled.
In 2019, invest in good marital and family values, such as integrity, compassion, kindness, giving, selflessness, truthfulness, and unconditional love. Let your values reflect on your daily lives too. Nurture your values in your children so that they can also understand the tremendous benefits which will facilitate their growth and create the future they want to experience themselves.
Celebrate your differences
Every individual is different but marriage has the capacity to understand individual differences. A good marriage is when two imperfect people come together to learn to appreciate and love one another more even after the honeymoon is over. Differences may not be crystal clear from the beginning but it is such that it can eventually become a blessing in your marriage if you begin to cherish it now more than ever before.
In 2019, learn to celebrate your differences; make it a substitute for your spouse’s flaws in your marriage. When you are both realistic about your goals and aspirations, you will help each other achieve them better.
Fulfil your dreams
Marriage comes with numerous benefits and gratifying your personal dreams is certainly one of them. Even though life has taken you through an unusual journey and your dreams seem like they are suddenly fading away, they are still where you left them, waiting for you to restore your purpose.
Dreams are essential in fulfilling your purpose in life; it’s the life you really want to live if it’s crystal clear. The joy of marriage is having a spouse you can share your dreams with and one who truly understands your heart’s desires will certainly make your life and marriage meaningful too.
In 2019, cherish and nurture your wife’s dreams, empower her to start that new business, take up the new job or take a bold step to make that mind-bending decision. Also believe in your husband’s greatness and become the inspired wife that breeds inspiration in her man. Be positive and honest with him, encourage him to have more faith in himself, and pursue his dreams. Reassure him that you will be walking beside him each step of the way as his dreams are fulfilled.
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