Not Everybody Has Perfect Sex Organs (II) By Funmi Akingbade
The G -spot is another organ in your wife’s body that does not need the help of the penis to get it working. It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue.
Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it, especially if you learn how to master the woman’s G-spot effectively. It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The ‘front’ wall of the vagina is located on the same side as her belly button.
The best way to find the G-spot has nothing to do with the penis but the fingers. First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don’t skip foreplay. To locate and master the woman’s G-spot, face your wife while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a ‘come hither’ motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall (make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this; sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort). This rough or slightly ridged area is the ‘G-spot’ and touching it often causes a woman to react with amazing surprise or pleasure.
If you don’t get a reaction, don’t be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within and not outside of the vaginal wall. And while this is going on, the penis is less given attention.
Sometimes, it helps to use your other hand to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don’t get discouraged if you can’t get a special reaction.
While some women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, others don’t get much of a feeling and some even feel discomfort from G-spot stimulation.
No worries, every wife will appreciate the attention and the effort of her husband! And while searching, you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to even more enthusiastically. And while you’re at it, consider mastering fingering techniques. This also takes pressure off the penis.
The best way to manually stimulate the G-spot is with a firm “tapping” motion with your crooked finger. Some husbands find it easier to stimulate the G-spot with two fingers. The rule of the game is to do what you both enjoy without thinking of your penis.
The only way to get G-spot stimulation in the missionary position is to prop her hips up with pillows. Wives can also intensify their ability to have G-spot orgasms by learning to contract their pelvic muscles, known as Kegel exercises.
G-spot orgasms generally require long, sustained stimulation, especially when you’re just starting to explore them. The man-from-behind’s position is great for G-spot stimulation. But remember that since it’s located on the belly-button side of the vagina, the husband needs to penetrate at an angle that pushes his penis against the front wall of the vagina.
Stimulating the G-spot is also a great complement to oral stimulation. With this also, there is no pressure of performance on the penis. All you need do is work on the clitoris and the G-spot with hands and tongue. When you are working on your wife’s clitoris with your mouth, insert one or two fingers into her vagina with a gentle thrusting motion. If you tilt them upward slightly, you are likely to hit her G-spot and bring about some intense sensations that may ultimately result in a combined clitoral and vaginal orgasm and even female ejaculation. All these are without the help of the penis.
Remember, the destination is less important than the journey. Let go of your intense focus on the goal; work to build pleasure and intimacy rather than stressing yourself because of the size of your penis.
If you have a small penis, you have to learn how to become totally confident with erotic talks; this will help get the job half done. Since you want to compensate for your small penis, why don’t you go ahead and combine giving your wife a ‘hot phone sex’ hours before the actual sex? This sequencer has been my ‘Secret weapon’ I share with many husbands who have done all to their penis but it just refused to grow, unlike many others who after using the natural herbs from Vietnam, smile every day to their bedroom!
When you get hot phone sex to work, you would have passed the tipping point. After this point, everything would fall in place. At this point, no wife cares how you look; all they want is someone that would take them to the climaxing point. The truth is that you would have masterfully commanded her mind. Husband; please remember that when the physical techniques seem not to be working on your wife any longer, this technology will get her over the hindrance.
If everything else fails, do not forget to insert a finger along with your penis. Girth is more important than length because vaginal feeling is most intense for about the first two inches. Many wives will appreciate the extra stretch. And try a textured condom. Some condoms are designed to add texture, thickness, and length. And also get the natural herbs from Vietnam that have been working wonders all these years with evidences all around.
And before I call it a day, I need you to know that the nipples of a woman do not also need much of penis attention. Although men have been paying very special attention to the nipple for years, it’s remarkable how few men know how to pleasure them to their full potential. Research shows that nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as touch to the clitoris and vagina, making it a key part of the three cardinal points of female pleasure. While gently massaging your wife’s breast with one hand, use your fingers or tongue to lightly trace the area around the areola, before placing your open mouth on her nipple. Try using your lips to softly hold the nipple in your mouth and run your tongue back and forth over it; use your lips and tongue to massage the area, paying attention to her bodily cues to determine what she likes best.